Finally, Someone Who Gets What You're Going Through

Weekly conversations about what no one talks about—feeling lost in the life you built

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought ‘I don’t recognize that woman,’ or wondered ‘What’s wrong with me?’—you’re in the right place. These aren’t just podcast episodes. They’re honest conversations about what it really feels like to lose yourself in motherhood.

You're Not Imagining It

That disconnected, restless feeling? It’s real. It’s common. And it has a name. Listen to conversations about identity displacement, the invisible woman syndrome, and why feeling ‘off’ doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you.

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What You'll Hear Here

Start Here: What's Really Happening to You

These episodes help you understand why you feel so disconnected and put words to experiences you thought were just in your head. You’re not losing your mind—you’re experiencing something real.

Listen to the episode that speaks to where you are right now.

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More Conversations That Get It

Real talk about feeling invisible, questioning everything, and wondering ‘What’s wrong with me?’ These aren’t pep talks—they’re honest conversations about what it actually feels like to lose yourself in the life you built.

Because sometimes you just need to hear someone say ‘Me too.

You're Not Alone in This

Different stories, same relief: “Finally, someone gets it.”

Ready to understand what you’re experiencing?

What If Nothing's Actually Wrong With You?

What if what you're feeling is actually completely normal?

Hey there. If you’ve been wondering ‘What’s wrong with me?’ or feeling like you’re going crazy, I need you to know something: You’re not broken.

That disconnected, restless feeling? It’s not a character flaw. It’s actually something specific that happens to identity-oriented women, and once you understand what it is, everything starts to make sense.

You don’t need to ‘find your greatness’ or ’embrace your power.’ You just need someone who understands what you’re going through and can help you make sense of these feelings.

Because understanding what’s happening is the first step to feeling like yourself again.

Your Utmost Life Method

Discover. Design. Do.

A clear way to understand what’s happening to you and why you feel so disconnected.

You don’t need more random strategies or empty motivation.
You need a process that meets you where you are—and helps you understand what you’re experiencing.

Discover

Understand why you feel like a stranger to yourself and what's really happening underneath all the roles.

Design

Figure out what you actually want vs. what you think you should want, and start imagining what's possible.

do

Take small, manageable steps that don't overwhelm you, make you feel selfish or require defending your choices to others.

This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about understanding who you’ve always been underneath everything.

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